Taming the tongue

If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. (James 3:3-6 ESV)

Last night at we were unpacking and preparing for our night I was spoken to saying that I had said something that rubbed someone the wrong way. I don't remember saying what I was said to have said. This is a great remainder that we need to watch our words, they can hurt and build up. This is a 2x4 reminding me to be slow to speak and quick to listen. God watch over us and help us all to be mindful of our tongue.